How to Find Your Ring Size

Of all the decisions that shape a ring, one of the quietest is the one that matters most: the fit. A well-sized ring feels instinctive – secure without being tight, comfortable without slipping, and so natural on the hand that it almost becomes part of the wearer. Whether you’re planning a surprise proposal or choosing a ring together, understanding size is the foundation. This guide walks you through everything you need to know to get it right.

The details matter in a proposal. Yes – the carat, the cut, the setting, the moment. But also the quieter details you rarely see in photos, the ones that hold everything else together. Fit is one of them. Get it right, and the moment feels seamless. Which is why, if you’re unsure (or simply want clarity), our complimentary ring sizer is the simplest place to start. Delivered to your door, it allows you to measure at home with ease – no appointments, no guesswork, no pressure. Order yours, and you’ll have the perfect foundation for choosing a ring that feels made for them.

A ring sizer gives you clarity – but surprise proposals often come with their own choreography. A little subtlety, a little creativity, and occasionally, a touch of stealth. Fortunately, there’s more than one way to gather the information you need. Here are the methods we see work best:

1. Ask a trusted friend

Often the most seamless option. A friend can suggest “trying a few rings on for fun” and later share the size with you – no suspicions raised.

2. Borrow a ring

Choose something they won’t immediately miss, ideally worn on the correct finger. Even an approximate size gives us valuable insight and helps narrow down the perfect fit.

3. Trace a ring

Place one of their rings on paper and trace both the inner and outer edges. From this, we can estimate the inner diameter – a small detail that provides a surprisingly accurate starting point.

4. Compare fingers

Not precise, but useful in a pinch. If one of your fingers matches their ring finger, it offers a helpful ballpark range.

5. Ask directly

If they know a proposal is somewhere on the horizon, asking won’t reveal as much as you think. They’ll know the ring is coming – but not the design, the timing, or the story you’re creating around it.

Once you have a sense of their size – whether from a ring sizer or a little quiet detective work – a few subtle details can make the final measurement even more precise. These small considerations often go unnoticed, but they shape how natural the ring feels from the very first wear.

1. Dominant hands run slightly larger.

Always measure the correct hand and finger.

2. Wider bands fit more snugly.

If you’re referencing an existing ring, ensure it’s similar in width to the design you’re choosing.

3. Temperature matters.

Hands swell in heat and shrink in cold – measure at normal body temperature.

4. Time of day matters too.

Because fingers change throughout the day, evening measurements are usually the most accurate.

5. Larger knuckles require balance.

Measure at the knuckle and the base, then choose the size in between for a comfortable, secure fit.

Proposing without exact sizing happens often – and it’s nothing to worry about. We offer one complimentary resize (on eligible engagement and wedding rings) within 12 months of completion. Bring your ring to a showroom or post it to us, and our team will take care of the rest, returning it perfectly resized within 2–3 weeks.*

*Exceptions apply.